One word has been resonating through my heart and my head every day. A word repeatedly spoken as a gift by Onmyfeet . He ends each encouraging comment with:
Every day I go rounds with myself. How do I make this work? How can I find ways to thrive here in Laos? What am I doing wrong? The truth is I just plain don’t feel well. It’s been weeks of using my ‘mind over matter’ approach to sickness with no improvement. It’s a scary thing to admit you’re not physically well so far from home. I’ve blamed the extreme heat and humidity. I’ve blamed lack of sleep and dehydration. I’ve blamed lack of physical activity. I’ve blamed myself.
I’m strong. I should be able to make this work. I shouldn’t wake up every morning figuring out how I’ll slog through the day ahead. I should embrace it all and be excited. Should should should.
It’s left me torn, confused and sad.
But, a wave of relief came over me yesterday when we bought my ticket home. Does this make me a quitter? I tell myself that the finish line was a point I set myself. I had this idea I’d last a year and anything less would be a failure.
So, now I try to come to terms with leaving. I will miss so much of this life. The future is totally unknown again and that knowledge is also difficult to deal with. I crave stability and health at this point more than anything.
In a week I’ll be on a plane home. Rob will follow a month after and we will continue our crazy beautiful mess of a journey together into the next chapter.
And we will find a place to grow and more importantly to thrive.
New beginnings await.